Has anyone factored in "Upbringing of Children" in this equation ?
Frankly, this is the only one thing that scares me the most. :unsure:
I think that if you feel that you will be able to bring up your child the same way as you would here in India, that would be a big mistake. And it will totally be unfair on the child too. But, even then I feel a balance can be achieved. Good values can be passed on to kids no matter where you stay.
Made me think of this video I saw sometime back -
Good values and super polite. Even when the reporter interrupts him at 4:47, he apologises to her. She apologises right back saying "Forgive me for interrupting".
If you are thinking on the lines of arranged marriage vs love marriage, I think that is quite a trivial aspect that you shouldn't worry about right now. Things can go wrong in any situation.